
The Mindful Swinger
An interactive audio series and live experience from SpeakEasy Noir, The Mindful Swinger invites you into candid, conscious conversations about swinging, nonmonogamy, kink, and erotic exploration.
Hosted by a rotating panel of trusted voices—Switchress Shay Au Lait, Sir Suga, Delvin the Expert, and Mr. Cunning Linguist—the show features panels, interviews, and live Q&As with kinksters, couples, and curious minds alike.
Whether you’re an experienced swinger or swing-curious, this series is your sexy syllabus for more connected, consensual play.
Past Recorded Replays
- Swingers and Swink: What You Need To Know – What’s swink? Tune in to learn the lingo, the lifestyle, and the liberation.
- Swinger’s Life 201: A Couple’s Erotic Exploration – Next-level nonmonogamy and what happens after your first swap.
- Swinging 101: The Mindful Swinger – A beginner’s blueprint for swinging with heart, ethics, and hotness.
- Swinging for Beginners: Ask A Mindful Swinger Q&A – Your questions, answered. Real talk from people living it.
- Are Swingers Freaky and Deviant? – An Evolution of Nonmonogamy – Spoiler alert: It’s deeper than you think. From stigma to spiritual connection.
- Swinging Into Polyamory – Prompts to consider when shifting from the Swinger lifestyle to the Polyamorous.
SpeakEasy Noir (a founding hot spot of BKN is an intentional, protected, and growing space that explores POWER, PLEASURE, AND PLAY through psychologically thrilling conversations, provocative stories, subversive ideas, and transformative talks.
The Black Kink Network (BKN) is a collective of vetted individuals, houses, brands, and businesses unified around shared principles, lifestyle choices, and a deep engagement with BDSM, kink, liberation, alternative spirituality, and power dynamics within Black and marginalized communities. BKN functions as a network of protected, intentional, and sometimes chaotic spaces where education, community-building, and exploration intersect.

