The Black Kink Network (BKN) is a collective of vetted individuals, houses, brands, and businesses unified around shared principles, lifestyle choices, and a deep engagement with BDSM, kink, liberation, alternative spirituality, and power dynamics within Black and marginalized communities. BKN functions as a network of protected, intentional, and sometimes chaotic spaces where education, community-building, and exploration intersect.
Founding Networks:
W.I.I.T.W.D.
W.I.I.T.W.D. (What It Is That We Do), created by Nikki “baby” glaze is a protected space for higher-level curious discussion and chaotic revelation of all the things that Wwe do in the various ways in which Wwe do them. Be proactive, engaged and initiative of Yyour own growth as Wwe explore Kink/BDSM, LGBTQIAA+, Consensual NonMonogamy/Polyamory, Standalone and from the BDSM Perspective, Alt – Religion/Spirituality and Heresy In All Forms & Fashion.
Select series include:
- Auditing wiitYyd
- Kink/BDSM in Media
- BDSM/Kink Protocols & Fetiquette
- Honoring the Vanilla within Kink
Speakeasy Noir – “An Adult Sesame Street!”
SpeakEasy Noir created by Switcheress Shay Au Lait is an intentional, protected, and growing space. Please do note, however, it is NOT a safe space. We consider it a space of danger and risk. We explore POWER, PLEASURE, AND PLAY through psychologically thrilling conversations, provocative stories, subversive ideas, and transformative talks.
Select series include:
- Beginner BDSM, Fetish and Kink
- BDSM Exploration (Open to All Levels)
- Liz’s List
- The Mindful Swinger
- DreamStorm with SpeakEasy Noir
- An {Untitled} Series about Men
Snap, Crackle, & Pop-Up Kink
Snap, Crackle, & Pop-Up Kink created by Nikki Glaze and Switchress is a Founding Club of The Black Kink Network. It is the Water Cooler/Kitchenette/Lounge and HotSpot of The Network. As this space was intentionally curated to be the Break Room of The Black Kink Network, MINIMAL moderating happens here. Do not expect those who adorn leadership roles to actively engage said role….unless pushed to…and no one wants to be moved to work when they’re on break. Stop by when you have time or are in need of a break to enjoy Pop-Up Conversations By & For Kinky & Alternative Folx
Select Series include
- The Kinky Morning Show / The Kinky Day Show
- Kinky Movie Nights and CoWatch Parties
- Gozer’s Meal Prep
The Villain’s Sanctuary
The Villains Sanctuary, created by Da Kollector and co-moderated by Mr CL and Switchress is a safe space for Kinky BDSM Villains to have their day in the spotlight. While they usually keep the most dangerous creatures locked up in the back, we, “The Legion of Doom” believe they need to take up space. The Villain’s Sanctuary is an online and in-person roundtable with guided social conversations on emergent and traditional fetish topics, kink play, and real-life anecdotes, tips, and evil inspiration. The Villain’s Sanctuary is an intermediate to advanced BDSM space, though all levels are welcomed. Along with esteemed moderators, guest speakers include nation-wide and world-class Sadists, Masochists, Primals, Predators… really any Villain that needs a moment. Or Villain Allies. Enter the sanctuary of villains at your own risk.
Select Series include:
- BDSM Primals: Beyond the Animals
- Can A Brat Break a Dom?
- You’re Not a (Blank), You’re A (Blank) such as “You’re Not a Dom, You’re a Top” or “You’re Not A Sadist, You’re a Top”
- Villain Origin Stories
- I’m At a Dungeon, Now What?
Core Networks:
COVET
Cognizance Of Varying Erotic Tastes (COVET) is a BIPOC BDSM munch group created by Sir Prince in Mobile, Alabama, that provides education, social opportunities, and support for those already experienced in or those new and interested in learning about. COVET is welcoming to all regardless of race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender or gender identity, or disability.
Select series include:
- monthly munches
- …. more to come.
The Detroit Deviants Dinner Club
The Detroit Deviants Dinner Club, curated by Sir El Belafonte is where community, culture, and connection come together in a beautifully curated dining experience. Hosted at various restaurants around the ALWAYS beautiful, and vibrantly revitalized city of Detroit; this gathering celebrates the Black tradition of sharing meals while creating space for meaningful conversations and building new bonds. Each outing is set to coincide with a BDSM and/or Kink-related event that directly follows the evening.
Dallas Black Munch
The Dallas Black Munch created by EVEthaminx
is a community space for Black kinksters in the Dallas/Fort Worth area. This munch is a dedicated space for Black folks who participate in or are curious about the BDSM, kink, and leather lifestyles. Whether you’re new to the scene or have been walking this path for years, you are welcome here. We meet to connect, build, and grow. This is a space for community, education, and empowerment. Come as you are — kinky, leathered, collared, curious — and let’s nurture a space rooted in Black joy, consent, authenticity, and liberation.
Meetings are held twice a month at Black- and queer-friendly locations around Dallas. Join to share stories, learn from each other, and build lasting, affirming connections.
Melanated and Kinky
Melanated and Kinky in Denver created by Quegirl was created to connect Black individuals in the BDSM and kink community who live in Denver and the surrounding cities. For now, the goal is to organize and host munches.
Additional Network Hotspots:
Harrisburg Black Kinksters – in-person munches
Confident Kink – currently inactive
The Capri-Sun Factory – intermittent activity
Black Opulent Coterie – intermittent activity
Pan’s Labyrinth – currently inactive
