Feeding Connection, One Bite at a Time

In the spirit of radical pleasure and intentional community, this Detroit kinky collective is serving more than just conversation—they’re plating connection.

Meet the Detroit Deviants Dinner Club, a munch group unlike any other, curated by the ever-intentional Mister Belafonte. This isn’t your average pre-event hangout—it’s a curated culinary ritual that brings Detroit’s kinky community together over top-tier food and intentional vibes before stepping into the dungeon, dance floor, or deviant delight of the night.

Rooted in Detroit’s rich history of resistance and reinvention, the Dinner Club was born to hold space for the curious, the kinky, and the culturally connected. The recipe is gorgeously simple yet deeply nourishing: gather at a highly rated local restaurant, indulge in flavor and fellowship, then head out together to a kink event. From leather to laughter, it’s a full-course journey of presence and play.

At the helm is Mister Belafonte—community builder, sensual event curator, and host with an eye for aesthetics and an unwavering commitment to Black, queer, and kinky joy. His vision brings warmth, wit, and a whisper of decadence to each dinner outing. With his flair for ambiance and appreciation for ritual, he transforms a shared meal into a moment of collective grounding and energetic syncing.

Each outing is a vibe:

• A welcoming space for newcomers to the lifestyle
• A low-pressure, high-pleasure entry point into Detroit’s kink scene
• A ritual of reconnection for seasoned players

And the offerings don’t stop there. Mister Belafonte also curates,

Work Hard, Play Hard

— a BDSM-minded, digital coworking experience where accountability and kink intersect in sexy, productive ways. It’s a semi-regular online space where Black, kinky folks blend their hustle with their hedonism, building accountability and intimacy in real-time. Work Hard, Play Hard is a reminder that in our community, even labor can be laced with intention.

Detroit Deviants Dinner Club is proudly open to collaboration with artists, educators, kink leaders, and organizers. Whether it’s a co-hosted dinner, a pre-con munch before a major event, or a takeover with flavor and flair, the table is set—and the invitation is open.

So whether it’s your first munch or your fifth, your fork is waiting.
Come hungry. Leave full. Play deeper.
This is Detroit Deviants.

Connect at the link to join the next event or for collaborative efforts with The Detroit Deviants Dinner Club.